February is Black History Month - a time to honor the resilience, achievements, and contributions of Black Americans. It is also an opportunity to reflect on the future and the legacy you are building for your family.
For many Black families, legacy is not abstract. It is shaped by generations who were denied the opportunity to accumulate and pass on wealth, and by the determination of those building something anyway. When wealth must be created without the benefit of generational cushioning, protecting it becomes just as important as generating it.
Yet even families who successfully build wealth often see it disappear between generations. Not because they lacked discipline or ambition, but because the systems governing inheritance, incapacity, and asset transfer were never designed with their realities in mind.
In this article, you’ll learn why wealth is particularly vulnerable at the moment it transfers, how historical and structural inequities still affect Black families today, and how Life & Legacy Planning can help you protect what you’ve built so it benefits your family for generations to come.
Understanding Today’s Wealth Gap
To understand why protection matters so much, we have to start with the broader context.
The numbers reveal a difficult truth. Black and Hispanic households together own only a small share of total U.S. wealth, despite representing a much larger portion of the population. Over the past several decades, the average wealth of white households has grown dramatically faster than that of Black households. For Black women, the wealth gap is even worse.
This gap is not accidental. It reflects policies and practices that systematically excluded Black families from wealth-building opportunities, including land ownership, affordable home loans, education benefits, and fair access to credit.
Because of this history, many Black families today are building wealth for the first time. Homes, businesses, retirement accounts, and life insurance policies are often first-generation assets. There is no inherited safety net if something goes wrong, which makes preserving what you build just as important as building it.
That context leads directly to the next question: where does wealth actually get lost?
How Wealth Is Lost Even After It’s Built
Wealth rarely disappears all at once. More often, it erodes quietly through the legal process after someone becomes incapacitated or dies without a comprehensive plan.
Without proper planning, in the event of an incapacity or death of a wealth holder, assets are tied up in probate court. This process can take months or even years, during which families may be unable to access bank accounts, sell property, or make decisions for a business. In addition, people involved in the court system can seek to financially benefit themselves to the detriment of the family that would otherwise inherit the assets. This is not unique to Black families, but does seem to impact Black families who may invest less time, energy, attention and money in protection due to simple misunderstanding of what’s needed.
For families without significant cash reserves, these delays create immediate pressure. Mortgage payments still come due. Property taxes must be paid. Businesses may stall or close because no one has legal authority to act.
For Black families, these risks can be amplified. Assets frequently support multiple generations, and elders may serve as financial anchors for extended family members. When access to resources is delayed, the ripple effects can destabilize an entire family network.
But financial loss isn’t the only risk. Family structure plays a critical role as well.
When Traditional Estate Plans Miss Real Family Structures
Many Black families rely on strong informal systems of care and support. Grandparents raise grandchildren. Siblings share financial responsibility. Extended family and close friends steps in where institutions have failed.
These arrangements work in real life, but the law does not automatically recognize them.
If your plan doesn’t legally name the people who actually care for your children, support your parents, or help run your business, those individuals may have no authority to act when it matters most. Courts default to rigid rules that may ignore your family’s true dynamics entirely.
This mismatch between lived reality and legal structure is one of the most common ways families lose control of their legacy, even when they did everything “right” during their lifetime.
So how do you plan in a way that reflects your real life?
How Life & Legacy Planning Protects What You’ve Built and Are Building
Life & Legacy Planning, the type of estate planning we do at our firm, starts from a different place. Instead of asking which documents you need, it asks who your people are and what they would need if you weren’t here.
The process begins with understanding your family’s actual structure - who depends on you, who you care for, and who you trust to step in if you can’t. We identify all your assets, including those your loved ones may not know about, so nothing gets lost or left behind.
Your plan can be designed to keep assets out of probate whenever possible, allowing your family immediate access to resources when they need them most. That means fewer delays, lower costs, and less risk of losing property or income during an already difficult time.
Just as importantly, Life & Legacy Planning is not a one-time event. As your life changes, your plan evolves. And when you’re gone, your family isn’t left navigating the legal system alone. They’ll have guidance from someone who understands both your wishes and your family’s realities. We’ll be there to support them during a difficult and confusing process.
Which brings us back to why this matters now.
Honoring the Past by Protecting the Future Now
Creating a Life & Legacy Plan isn't just about legal documents. It's about breaking cycles of loss that have disproportionally affected Black families. It's about ensuring your children and grandchildren inherit not just money but also the knowledge, values, and family connections that create true generational wealth.
As a Personal Family Lawyer® Firm, I support you in creating a plan that works when your family needs it most. My process starts with a Life & Legacy Planning® Session, where I'll review what would happen to you if you became incapacitated and to your loved ones when you die. You'll inventory all your assets so your family knows exactly what you have and nothing gets lost. From there, we’ll create a customized plan that reflects your family's unique structure and protects the legacy you're building.
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